Is it inappropriate to have a hot, young massage therapist give me a massage in my home when we are all alone?
loulou asked:
For the past few weeks I have been having a massage in my home from a young guy who was my massage therapist at a massage clinic. He is working on his own now and asked if I would continue seeing him in my home. We are always alone, and nothing inappropriate has happened, but there is definitely a different vibe now. It feels very, very intimate now. Does anyone else do this and if so, how do you keep things professional in such a private, intimate atmosphere?
For the past few weeks I have been having a massage in my home from a young guy who was my massage therapist at a massage clinic. He is working on his own now and asked if I would continue seeing him in my home. We are always alone, and nothing inappropriate has happened, but there is definitely a different vibe now. It feels very, very intimate now. Does anyone else do this and if so, how do you keep things professional in such a private, intimate atmosphere?
17 Responses to “Is it inappropriate to have a hot, young massage therapist give me a massage in my home when we are all alone?”
You keep it professional by keeping YOURSELF professional
I think its inappropriate.
are you paying? if you pay then it is just an in home massage, if you are getting the happy ending then its something different
Honey, change that atmosphere. by inviting him to your home you put a different slant on things. Ge ye back to the Spa and things will go back to a more professional slant. You have changed to a more intimate atmosphere so that is what you got. change back before something gets out of hand.
I wouldn’t do it.
No, just try to keep any urges you have to yourself, it’s not wrong, but it could get wrong so watch out.
I don’t think its inappropriate at all! If you want to keep things professional, try just talking to him about general things. Work, how he’s doing, anything that feels comfortable to talk about.
If you are thinking about being intimate with him while he is massaging you, then you are probably putting yourself in a dangerous position. Make sure there is another person there to ensure things remain professional, or just don’t have a massage done at home. Better yet, maybe you should have your massages from a lady to keep things simple.
well, if your husband was the one having the massage, how would you feel? yeah. thought so.
Depends on if you get a “happy ending” or not………….
This will be purely your decision. The tone of your question is tha t you are interested yourself. Are you married? If not what is the problem?
I smell trouble
are you married?
if you are then thats wrong
If it was entirely innocent you wouldn’t be asking the question.
you describe him as being hot & young ! sounds to me like your wanting more than just your back rubbed my girl ! i think i am going to change occupations ! have fun , butcher…..
It depends on what she is massaging
Outcalls are a common practice for massage therapists just getting started on their own. If he’s licensed, he won’t lay a hand on you other than the regular massage. If his actions are inappropriate at any time, you need to report him to the state licensing board immediately. Otherwise, you should be safe, and your “different vibe” is probably wishful thinking on your part. (I’m not saying that to be rude either. It’s well known that “bonding” hormones are released during massage, both from the client and the practitioner, so it’s not uncommon to develop feelings that may be confused for sexual attraction.)
However, It is NOT appropriate (or legal) to have intimate relations (including the touching of any ********* or nipples) with a professional client at any time. If there really is a vibe there, you need to discuss it, and either decide to act on it, which means ending the professional relationship, or else decide that you can both handle the feelings, and direct the nature of the conversations to something more neutral, or maybe even silence, and carefully monitor your actions and conversations to keep them professional.
Leave your fantasies in your head and call on them later when he’s not around.