Is it unusual to have unethical feelings during a massage?
jc asked:
I have only had 2 massages in my life. One was from a male LMP quite a few years ago and my second was from a female LMP a few days ago. I did NOT have either of these massages for sexual pleasure, but during the massage a few days ago, as she was working on my gluts, I became aware that I was feeling very “warm” (have to be careful here) almost to the point of um… “bliss” (again, have to be careful) and I had to consiously prevent this from happening. Is this unheard of for a straight woman to have these sensations during a massage? I was afraid that she could tell somehow by the way I was breathing.
Just to clarify. This was a normal massage. She did not touch anywhere she shouldn’t have been touching.
I have only had 2 massages in my life. One was from a male LMP quite a few years ago and my second was from a female LMP a few days ago. I did NOT have either of these massages for sexual pleasure, but during the massage a few days ago, as she was working on my gluts, I became aware that I was feeling very “warm” (have to be careful here) almost to the point of um… “bliss” (again, have to be careful) and I had to consiously prevent this from happening. Is this unheard of for a straight woman to have these sensations during a massage? I was afraid that she could tell somehow by the way I was breathing.
Just to clarify. This was a normal massage. She did not touch anywhere she shouldn’t have been touching.
5 Responses to “Is it unusual to have unethical feelings during a massage?”
Its normal and oh ! so ****. Why not have it and enjoy it. What massage is for ? … pleasure not torture !!haha!
In my limited Expierences ,, Ha female only.. Some massesues are more gifted touch wise than others . seems like she was intentionally —playing you — could be just for repeat business though . it is a business after all.
when ever you go for a massage no matter who is the massager male or female. When he/ she rubs your body cells becomes in action and it because of this one feels the ****** willingly or unwillingly. Yes ****** massages are meant for the sexual pleasure and have a different way. So it is quite natural and normal and if she tells any one and the listener is sensible person will simply ignore this. Don’t worry
Let’s get this straight — you went to a female masseuse ( well, a masseuse would be female by definition) and she worked you to the point of o _ _ _ _ m?
Certainly done deliberately.
At best she was playing with you. At worst she was silently propositioning you.
Of course she could tell she’d got you to that point. Now she’s waiting for you to come back again….. and again. For her pleasure — financial, emotional and “otherwise”.
Don’t worry, you are perfectly normal… Don’t worry about labels like “straight”… sometimes a perfectly “straight” woman (or man!!!) will sometimes really connect with a member of the same ***. A massage is a naturally **** thing to start with, and all those feelings meant is that you were really relaxed and felt comfortable with her. Next time go ahead and let the “bliss” take you wherever it leads… Most LMPs have had that happen with their clients at one time or another…
Best,
Ed, RN